PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS FIRST.

I HAVE TOLD YOU TO READ THIS ALL THE WAY TO THE VERY END


This is very easy to NOW understand.
As last year I HAD been dating someone off this site, she came to England, but it just did NOT end in a loving relationship or marriage.

Then just at the START of November (November the 1st) I actually got to MEET a REAL PHYSICAL lady who lives in the SAME town as me in England.
But as MUCH as I like her AND her 3 children, she shows me OTHER side of her. As in my eyes, she was not only been rude (NOT the rude to show off her body rude) but as a RUDE person. As she was also in my eyes being very disrespectful towards me. She DID try to contact me telling ME that it was I who was been rude and disrespectful towards HER, as this had taken me bye SHOCK 😮 So I BLOCKED her off my WhatsApp, and I also had BLOCKED her mobile number, as she tried to call me on that, then as she has SECOND phone, she try to call me on that, so I BLOCKED 🚫 that number. As I had given her my email address, as I did NOT want live conversation with her, as I MIGHT say something that I might regret later.
Not only that, if she email me, I have PROOF of her words to me, thus keeping ME SAFE, as she can say 1 thing on WhatsApp, and if I NOT screenshot what she had sent to me, it is TOO EASY to remove (DELETE) them words, so all you see is the things that I have put, and with NO context or reference to that she may have put, and then it would just NOT make any sense 🤪🤡🤪 and make my words look 😄.
But as her children came home from school, she even got her 13yo son to call me on his number, a NUMBER that I did NOT know or recognise 🤔
But I told him that it was between ME and his MAMMY to resolve any problems. But I also tell him if I see him in the town or his brother or sister, I would only be too happy to speak with them, as they are FANTASTIC children. But I also KNOW that his mammy would have been listening in on the call. I tell him that I did NOT wish to disrespect him, but I was sorry that I had to also BLOCK his number.

So NOW I have had 2 BAD experiences with Nigerian women, and on both times I was NOT shown respect.

So NOW I am back alone and SINGAL

Well this information has changed, as I meet a lady off this site who is in the UK 🇬🇧 as we speak. Had the GOOD fortune to meet her in person, and as far as I am concerned, we are TRULY BLESSED, as we are dating, and will continue to date her for as long as she will have me for, as I want to date her for longer than she can possibly imagine 🥰🤗🥰 as things feel so RIGHT between us, and when I hold her in my arms and she steels the heat from my body, that I willingly give to her, is the BEST feeling EVER. As I just NEVER want her to leave my side 😢
WELL THINGS HAVE CHANGED BACK, AS I AM NOW BACK SINGLE, AS YOU DO EVERYTHING FOR A PERSON, THEN THAT SAME PERSON AS GOOD AS TELLS YOU, ALL YOU DONE FOR THEM, THAT THEY DO THE SAME OR MAYBE BETTER WITHOUT YOU. Talk about saying something that hurts you.
So now, just like a jugglers ball's 🥎 things are ALL up in the AIR.

But just the other week, we started to build bridges and try to sort things out between us. But once more, things ran SMOOTH, till I point out to her that I had put that I was “SEPARATED” as it to me says that you are with someone but things are not smooth and you are NOT physically with them.
But her bio says that she is SINGLE, so to me that is her saying to the world, that she has NOT got ANYONE of any meaning in her life.
What is a man meant to do, as LOVE for me has NEVER ran smooth, and it has been proven to be true for me once-more.
And the only thing was that according to HER, me saying I was separated, was the SAME as me saying that I was SINGLE.
So as I know that about 1% of the women on this app take the time to read ALL that I put.
But when you look at a persons profile, the MAIN thing that you see, is there status as been SINGLE, or if you are SEPARATED, or DIVORCED or a WIDOW OR WIDOWER.
I had even contacted to staff on this site to include the status as “It’s COMPLICATED” and they got back to me and told me that they are considering of putting that as been a setting on a persons status.

So as I have told her, if she is telling the world that she is SINGLE, then let her be SINGLE. As that is her choice of how she wants things to be.


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But guys, PLEASE 🙏 NEVER give up on looking for LOV, and NOT all that BS of 😄. 😄. 😄. As it is NOTHING better to LOVE someone SPECIAL, than to go from side-girl to side-girl. STICK with just 1 woman, and LOVE her, as she will show you love and respect back.



GOOD LUCK 🤞 for all who search 🔎 👀 for LOVE 🥰 as it is out there.
It may be HARD to find, but I still feel that it is still out there.

Bye from John in ENGLAND 🇬🇧

🖖 LIVE LONG AND PROSPER 🖖

Pele for such a LONG message 🙃

Just 1 last thing that I wish to say, is that I am NOT going to be someone’s VISA, someone’s FLIGHT TICKET ✈ Someones place to live, and I am also NOT going to be anyone’s BANK.

I am SORRY if this sounds as if I am harsh, but I get so SICK 🤢 of been asked for money, or to be asked for goods in place of money (mobile phone, store cards, or ANY other thing)