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xojbamah 

      man, 44 years old

I am seeking a woman, max. age 50

Lives in Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria.

How I describe myself

I am a complete gentle man with the fear of God. I mean I respect all the creatures and to be a complete gentle man, you must have achieve this.

Don’t treat women like objects. The
worst thing you can do to a woman is look her up and down like she’s a piece of meat. Women are human beings with their own thoughts, hopes, and goals, and you should never ogle them and treat them like
they’re only there to serve as a feast for your eyes. When you meet a new woman, ask her name and get to know her for real, instead of
just staring at her like you’re undressing her with your mind. When you look at women this way, they’ll be able to tell instantly and
will want to leave you immediately. Gentlemen understand that women are to be treated with respect. They don’t talk to them with cheesy pick-up lines and prefer some tasteful, lighthearted flirting instead. Be respectful in your actions. Don't be
obsequious, but know that neo-feminism has kind of gotten rid of some basic politeness that they'll appreciate, such as opening car or building doors, or pulling out chairs. Don't put every girl on a pedestal (we're all human), but they'll really appreciate it if you do them favors, like giving up your seat on the bus even though they're not carrying anything heavy. Each woman is different, and you should
see which gentlemanly gestures she’s comfortable with. For example, it may be gentlemanly to give a woman your coat if she’s cold, but make sure she really wants it and accepts it. When you’re walking down a street with a woman, walk on the side closer
to the traffic. This is an old fashioned gentlemanly action that is done so that you “protect” the woman from the street as you’re walking. You can take it or leave it,
but you should be aware of it. See how the woman reacts when you try it and use that to determine whether she finds the gesture sweet or dated.

Avoid discussing offensive or boring topics with women. These include how hot other girls are, or anything at all of that nature. If she's not into sports or 😄 games, you can say a few things but then move on to something she's into.

Help the people around you. Always be aware of how you can help people. Wait an extra few seconds to hold the door for the person behind you. Offer to help an old or pregnant person get their grocery bags to the car. You don't have to go overboard and risk hurting yourself (e.g. if you've got a precarious grip on something heavy, don't open the door for someone) but respect is paramount. True gentlemen don’t only focus on the women they like and ignore everyone else; being a gentleman is a way of approaching the world and all of the people in it, not just the ones you’d like to date.

Be on the lookout for people who could use some help but who may not want to ask for it. The man carrying a tray of coffee would love it if you opened the door for him, but he may not ask.

Make polite conversation. Be prepared to ask questions or make statements of courtesy, like "How was your day", "May I help you?", "Let me get that for you", or "I'll
take care of that". Learn to speak slowly and carefully and to take the time to really talk to people in a polite fashion, no matter how rushed you may be. Whether you’re talking to your neighbor or the cute girl in your physics class, make an effort to smile, to be friendly, and to make interesting small talk about how your day is going. A gentleman doesn’t cut right to the chase, but takes his time getting to know people. Being able to make conversation is a sign of class and maturity, which are two important aspects of being a gentleman.

That's all about me........ I need a serious relationship.

The Destiny of sugarcane is to be cut at the
time of its sweetness May you not be cut
off at the time for u to flourish & Prosper
You will Fulfill your destiny In Jesus Name.
(Amen) (1, 1)
And my facebook account is Adexoji
Bamah, you can view and also add me if I
am the type of friend you'll want. Moreso, I
am very sorry for disturbing uuuuu.

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