Before You Slide Into My DM, Please Read My Bio 😊
I appreciate people who take time to read before asking questions. Most of the information you need about me is already written here, so kindly go through my bio before sending me a message. 1 thing I genuinely dislike is poor communication. If you ask questions that have already been answered in my bio or struggle to hold a meaningful conversation, there's a high chance I won't reply. I enjoy intelligent, engaging conversations and believe good communication is 1 of the most attractive qualities a person can have.
Now that we've gotten that out of the way, let me properly introduce myself.
I'm a woman in my 30s, an educated lady from the eastern part of Nigeria, currently living on the Lagos Mainland. I've never been married and I don't have children. Life has taught me many lessons, especially through past relationships, and 1 of the biggest lessons is choosing myself first. Some people may call that selfish, but I call it self-love and self-respect. I believe in protecting my peace, investing in my happiness, and living life intentionally.
I work extremely hard, but I also believe life shouldn't be all about work. I enjoy going out, attending events, partying, networking, travelling when I can, and creating beautiful memories. To me, having fun is my way of unwinding after working hard. Life is meant to be enjoyed, and I try to make the most of every opportunity.
I'm open to building meaningful relationships in different forms. Whether it's friendship, partnership, networking, collaboration, business opportunities, or something deeper if the connection is right, I'm always willing to meet genuine people. However, I value maturity, respect, and emotional intelligence. I've come to believe that people in their 30s generally have a better understanding of themselves and what they truly want in life, so I naturally connect better with people within that age range.
If you decide to message me and I don't respond, please don't take it personally. It could simply be because your profile doesn't catch my interest, your bio doesn't say much about you, your communication style isn't appealing, your location is too far for my preference, or you're below the age range I'm comfortable with. I also don't enjoy long-distance relationships within Lagos. Places like Ikorodu, Ajah, Epe, Ikotun, and other distant locations aren't ideal for me because I value convenience and quality time.
Professionally, I'm a writer and journalist, and storytelling is something I'm deeply passionate about. I help students with project write-ups and academic research, while also writing news articles, opinion pieces, lifestyle features, and business stories. As a journalist working with a newspaper organization, I conduct interviews, cover events, and create compelling stories that inform and inspire. If you own a business or organization and would like more visibility through professionally written articles or media coverage, I'd be happy to help. Likewise, if there's an important event or story around you that deserves public attention, feel free to reach out.
I'm also a Data Analyst, and this is where I put my analytical skills to work. I design survey questionnaires, participate in field research when necessary, clean and organize data, analyze results, and provide insights that help clients make informed decisions. Whether you're a student, researcher, business owner, NGO, or corporate organization, I can help transform your data into meaningful information that supports better decision-making.
Cooking is another part of my life that brings me genuine happiness. It's more than a skill—it's something I truly enjoy. A friend once joked that if you want to live long, marry an Igbo or Akwa Ibom woman because they know how to cook. We all laugh about how Chioma keeps Davido happy with her meals, but jokes aside, I genuinely love creating delicious food. I enjoy experimenting with both local and continental recipes. Some of my favorite Nigerian dishes include Afang Soup, Atama Soup, Edikang Ikong, White Soup, Seafood Okra, Ofe Achara, Egusi Soup, and many other traditional delicacies. If you're looking for homemade meals, food delivery, catering services, or even a personal chef, my inbox is always open.
I'm also the founder of the Beelex Community, a social and entertainment brand dedicated to bringing people together through exciting experiences. We organize unforgettable events such as pool parties, club parties, games nights, picnics, networking events, themed parties, corporate team bonding activities, end-of-year celebrations, seminars, birthdays, bridal showers, baby showers, engagement parties, weddings, and many other social events. Our goal is to create memorable experiences while helping people connect, socialize, and build lasting relationships. If you're someone who enjoys meeting new people and having fun, you're welcome to become part of the Beelex Community. We also provide professional event planning services for individuals and organizations.
Beyond all these, I have a dedicated team that handles podcast production for individuals, brands, and organizations looking to create quality podcast content.
In summary, I'm an ambitious woman who values meaningful conversations, genuine relationships, professionalism, creativity, and personal growth. I believe life is too short for unnecessary drama, fake connections, and poor communication. If you're here to network, collaborate, build a friendship, discuss business, or explore something meaningful, I'm open to getting to know you.
Now that you've read my bio, if you still feel we'd connect, don't just send a "Hi" or "Hello." Start a conversation. Tell me something interesting, introduce yourself, or give me a reason to reply. Good conversations always get my attention.