Please read completely before contacting me!

Only real people... please read my long bio completely before you contact me. Hello and welcome! If you have some time, please read through this...

**My No-Gos:**

* No WhatsApp right away
* No cellphone numbers in the first messages, please
* No short messages like "hi" or "hello"
* No fun, scam, or nonsense messages
* No money support (I am sorry, I am not a bank)

I want to see you for who you really are. No glamour, no makeup, no evening dresses, and no spotlights. Just you. I want to see you right after you wake up, with messy hair and sleep in your eyes. I want to see you the way you are every ordinary day. That’s what I truly like.

When we fall, we must get up time and time again. Life is 1 constant battle, and if we give up, we have already lost. Who wants to fight together with me? Is there anybody out there?

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Asked Questions (FAQ) about me:

**Why "mindedme"?**
There are 3 meanings for me: 1. *Open & Curious* (open-minded to new perspectives and deep conversations). 2. *Connection-focused* (looking for like-minded souls on the same wavelength). 3. *Minimalist* (open heart, open thoughts, good energy).

**How are you?**
It depends, but mostly I am okay. If there is too much work, then I am tired, of course. But I am not a moody person.

**What are you looking for here?**
Dreaming of love, like most people, trying to find my soulmate out there. It is a hard search... where are you?

**Do you have red flag actions?**
Yes, a big red flag is sending me just a "hi, hello, WhatsApp" message. The second is asking me for "fun" right away; it just shows a lack of respect.

**Are you drinking or smoking?**
I am a non-smoker, and I really don't like to kiss a smoker... I don't drink much either.

**Would you like to have kids?**
If possible and if we both want it, I would love to, but it's not a must. Adoption or anything else is always possible, but it is not the most important thing.

**Do you have experience with 1-night stands?**
No, I really don't. I need love and trust before I can share intimacy with someone.

**What do you like to do in your free time?**
I like many things: hiking, relaxing, watching movies, cooking, and traveling. I also enjoy cycling, tennis, and badminton.

**What do you like to eat?**
Many things. I love Italian cuisine, traditional German meals, and I am very open to trying new things. I’ve actually tried some African food before—I really like Jollof rice and Suya, but I can't cook it myself yet!

**Do you have a job?**
Yes, I have a good job, thank you. And don't worry—I don't need other people's money, and I am not looking for someone to support me financially.

**Are you a premium member here?**
No, I am not. That's why I can't easily reply to short messages here. If you are serious, you can send me your Gmail address, or you can message me directly at: **mindedme99 at gmail.com**

**Are you in Lagos or Abuja?**
I get similar location questions very often. No, I am currently in Germany, but I am very fascinated by the vibrant culture and warmth of Nigeria. If I find the right woman, I could absolutely imagine buying a house and spending my retirement life there later on, away from the big, crowded cities.

**Are you a 1-woman man?**
Yes, I am. And I expect that when you choose me, you won't look for others either—it's a matter of mutual respect.

**What are your expectations in a relationship?**
It's a matter of give and take, but even more, it's about caring for each other with the goal of staying together for the rest of our lives.

**Are you going to ghost me?**
I have never, ever ghosted anyone. I only block profiles if people use bad or strange words. I am a friendly person, and I treat people the way I want to be treated.

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### 🔥 Let's talk about intimacy & honesty:

If you are truly real... until I am allowed to see all of you, I will not believe that you seriously want me. I don't want a childish relationship. I want something serious and sweet—and being passionate and intimate is a big part of it.

I am a human being and a man. If my woman loves me, yes, of course I want her to show me her body and not be shy with me. I am not a pervert; I just have a high 😄 drive, and I want an open-minded, passionate woman. If you don't have a high 😄 drive or if you are very conservative about these things, then we are probably not a match.

To test if you actually read this long text: What do you think about making love in a romantic place somewhere outside? And how often do you pleasure yourself per week? If you can't answer both of these in your first email, I will know you just skimmed through my profile! 😉

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### 👑 Where is my Cinderella?

I am looking for someone simple, non-smoking, honest, and nice, with a warm-hearted smile. You should be a 1-man woman to get old with, someone who is decent but naughty with me behind closed doors. Ready to eventually live with me. That's my dream... maybe just a dream.

I am not exactly George Clooney, and I am a bit chubby, but I am nice, loyal, and friendly. I can be the rock in the surf for you!

**Please note:**

* If you don't want to learn German eventually, it won't work.
* If you don't like to work or build a future together, please don't message me.
* If you are just looking for quick entertainment, money, or a casual chat, please ignore me.

If you think you are the 1, and you are truly serious about me, please send an email to: **mindedme99 at gmail.com**

Thank you for reading, and I am looking forward to your answers!