Life is simple but why do we make it complicated for ourselves and others? There's nothing wrong with being truthful, sincere and kind. If you are married say it, let the other person make a choice, if you just want fun, say it let the other person make a choice. Not everyone on dating sites or apps are looking for fun or money, some persons are genuinely looking for love. Go for people who wants what you want, why read someone's bio seeing that the person doesn't want games but genuine relationship you still go ahead to message even when you know your intentions are not genuine? My dear Nigerian abroad brothers, I am not here to show you my boobs neither do I want to see yours, I'm not here to ask you for money though I want money, I am a very contented person so if you are not looking for a wife abeg you with anything that you hold dear, don't message me, I can't take it anymore. Please have a heart. And yea if you are looking for who to manipulate or control, you are actually in the very wrong place. Gracias.