Let me put this in another way I'm looking for a man healthy and fit with his own money because people with money don't ask for yours. I not looking for anyone's money I have my own just trying to put together with someone to have something in life and build a future. I love African men but it's hard to find someone I'm not sending money buying plane tickets nothing I don't care if your mother is dieing not my problem! Please don't waste my f***"" time! I need a man that can buy his own ticket to come to America I'll take care of everything else help you find a job start a business ect....